When one is involved in the world, only worldly  thoughts will arise during one’s last moments.  To those who yearn wholeheartedly for the Lord, the Lord will present  Himself. One may love his/her kith and  kin, respect them and keep them in good humour so long as one moves about in  the world.  But, while still being in the  world, one must offer unstinted love and loyalty all through the life to the  Lord alone, none else.
           -Divine Discourse,               May 6, 1983 .